What is important to me in a person. What is the most important thing for any person? Video about the main qualities of people

The most important thing in a person is sincerity and simplicity. And external beauty is not as important as internal beauty. A person is beautiful because kindness lives in him,
She is like paint that will be a delight for any canvas.

A person is pure because his main trump card is not pomp and gaiety, but a heart that gives everyone joy, fluttering with the lightness of a moth.
And above all - the heart - in which mercy, affection, integrity and warmth live.
It doesn’t matter what skin color, clothes, it doesn’t matter whether the heart is filled with self-confident denial or faith in Christ, the main thing is when the eyes light up and the soul responds to someone else’s misfortune.

It doesn’t matter whether your abode is a mansion or a hut made of logs - if there is awe, love, complicity in your chest, then your life is not empty.
Isn't happiness the same as enjoying life to the last sip? Do not be afraid to love and even be humiliated by the love of the blade,
Isn't happiness about loving every grain of sand? Isn't happiness in laying down your swords and finding the strength to embrace your enemy?
And give him food and goodness, drinking with him from your own cup of wine.

If words of support were released from your lips in a moment of despair, if your heart burns, blazes brighter than a fire, if you love every centimeter of the Motherland - from the lakes to every petal blooming in the spring
This means your life is righteous and incredibly full.
And you flutter, filled with joy, in rapture at how light it is, and drink in admiration from the ocean of existence, which gives water for every stream.
And if you are kind, then a universal thread leads you, its invisible, gentle hand rests on your shoulders like cosmic twilight,
And she protects you throughout the ages.

Above all shrines for me is a dream.

The most carefree thing is spiritual nakedness - the ability to empathize and live, observing the miracle in the moment of every day.
The most important thing in a person is his eyes.

How to decide what jewel to decorate your finger with,
You would better think about what to give to your neighbor, believing in the gratuitousness of hopes. It would be better for you to rise up in heart and give benefactors to everyone, without relying on the help of heaven.
Above all else in a person is virtue, it is more significant than the graceful gesture of a diva, it is more beautiful than a flirtatious look, it is more majestic than Everst.
Above all in a person is the ability to understand, empathize, listen, accept, and give, sparing no spiritual means.
Of all the places I've visited, the most beautiful
The most moving were the walks through the human soul.
The most beautiful of all festivals and celebrations is a kind heart - my interest in it will not fade.

And if anything in this world still has weight,
These are the eyes that burn all around. What could be more important than a loving heart, which is probably

In my opinion, the most important thing in a person is not kindness, soul or health, although this plays an important role in the life of this individual, but honor is most important, because it combines such concepts as fidelity, justice, truthfulness, nobility and dignity.

Since ancient times

From time to time, the minds of thinkers were occupied with questions not only on the topic “who is a person,” but also “what is most important about him.” Some believed that morality was the most important thing, others believed that conscience was the most important thing; there were also those who argued that there was no main thing, everything was complementary.

Personally, I adhere to the point of view that each person chooses for himself what is most important to him. For example, for some it is more important to be the best in the eyes of friends: the best car, the best hairstyle, the best house or the best suit; for others - not to violate religious commandments; for others - to become a luminary of science, etc.

For the first it is most important

Not an honor, but a badge of honor, which is not the same thing. For example, some people think that if you gave birth to a child, then you have become a parent - this is not true, because this still needs to be studied and learned. I once happened to observe a picture of a young girl walking through the park, a stroller in one hand, and a bottle of beer in the other. A most unpleasant picture, I must tell you. But no matter what I or anyone else says, people will still be drawn to them because it’s fashionable and cool.

People of the second type are clergy and believers. Well, I don’t believe, looking at the priest’s face and belly shiny with fat, that he religiously observes fasting. From the very time Rus' was baptized, the church became a branch of government. And, besides, the belief that there lives an old man high above us, who has a specific list of ten rules, for violation of which he will send a person to the fiery hyena - is absurd!

People of the third type, in my humble opinion, are the most honest of the above, because they produce new knowledge about the world, put forward various theories about the universe and construct complex high-precision equipment not for their own use, but for the benefit of the public.

But the minds of not only thinkers were concerned with this issue, but also of many different layers of society. For example, playwright William Shakespeare wrote in “Richard II”: “What treasure in the world is more valuable than unsullied honor? I need good glory more than life: having given it away, I will lose the right to life.” However, in my opinion, this was not a literal translation, and the author had something else in mind, because honor and glory are not the same thing, or, in the words of Johann Gottfried Seime, “Honor is rarely where glory is, and even more rarely does glory happen where there is honor.” William Shakespeare probably argued that honor is the highest privilege a person can have, and once it is lost, a person loses the right to exist because he ceases to be a man. What did Johann Seime think? Most likely, he considered the concept of “honor” as “honesty”, and fame as “fame”. But this is my personal opinion on his words.

Above, I argued that honor combines such concepts as fidelity, justice, truthfulness, nobility and dignity. I will dwell on this in more detail, trying to explain the role of each psychological regulator as part of such a complex system.

What does loyalty mean as part of honor? In my opinion, this means making a decision, believing and maintaining it even when it is sometimes devoid of common sense. For example, we can take the most ordinary relationships of young people. Love that implies fidelity. And even though she cheated on him, and even when the guy found out about it, he is still faithful to her, because he decided so, for him it is so important - not to give up on his decisions, his words, although this thought pains him unbearably. But, again, all people are different, and such a belief is characteristic only of a minority, which seems to other people to be nonsense, devoid of meaning.

What is justice? Justice is objectivity. This does not mean at all that “you are my friend, therefore you are right, but I am seeing him for the first time, therefore he is wrong.” No, this is what an objective approach to truth consists of. Everyone should be rewarded according to what they deserve: sinners will be rewarded for their sins, the righteous - for righteous deeds; then and only then will happiness come, although the guitar god Jimi Hendrix believed differently, claiming that “when the power of love surpasses the love of power, then there will be peace on earth.”

But what then is truthfulness? In my opinion, this is a state when a person is uncomfortable telling a lie, so he speaks, or at least tries to tell, only the truth. But this does not mean that a person should not tell a lie - it is simply unpleasant. For example, when I don’t want to tell the truth, I laugh it off, but I do it in such a way that it’s clear to everyone that it’s a joke. And the truth will actually be the opposite of the joke.

Nobility? If we analyze this word according to its composition, we get a “good kind,” that is, the sublimity of the motives of human behavior, their kinship with the Good, where the motives are not selfishness, but altruism, the desire to help one’s neighbor, and not for the sake of profit, but for the sake of happiness.

Dignity is respect or self-respect for the human person. It is inalienable and intransferable, and personal dignity is protected by criminal law. Yes, dignity is given to a person from birth, and it cannot be taken away. But a person with just one small act can drop it so much that he will not be able to restore it in his entire subsequent life.

Thus, honor, in my opinion, is the most important psychological regulator of such a complex biosocial being as a person, and people do not even realize its exceptional significance, inventing something else for themselves that they consider important, letting truly priceless things pass them by. And, inventing, they violate one of the ten commandments: “Thou shalt not make for yourself an idol,” and although I consider religion absurd, I admit that it is not devoid of common sense.

The most important thing in a person...

The most important thing in a person is his soul and mind. The soul expresses its desires as feelings, while the mind expresses its desires as thoughts. The body contains the soul and mind, it is the abode. Mind and soul are spirit. Who and what gave us this miracle is not destined to know, at least not to me. The body lives by physical laws and allows you to see, hear, feel, and perform actions. The body allows us to carry out our thoughts and ideas and bring them to life. A pleasant feeling for the body, a joyful feeling, euphoria, ecstasy, orgasm, tickling, laughter are good, I agree, but in moderation, but you should never strive for these earthly blessings, because you are not created for this, I think. All these sensations can be compared to wine. Pleasure is temporary, but constantly it either gets boring, or paralyzes the mind, or destroys the body. Artificially created happiness such as alcohol, drugs and the like is not good because it turns us into animals and brings unnatural death closer. Death is natural only from old age.

The desire to possess earthly goods is an animal way of life, it is caring for one’s body, it is the self-affirmation of weak people, it is their refuge. I'm not saying that wise men are gods. A sage is not always a thoughtful old man with a beard and a book in his hands. A sage is also a person. He is an eternal student. Each sage has a different view on the laws of Existence, on nature, on the Cosmos, on life, on death, on man and his spirit. Wise men guide and inspire. Truths differ according to reason.

Why improve? Okay, but what is the way of the animal way of life? It's a pleasure, it's good, but, I repeat, in moderation. Est modus in rebus. And when this goal or path to the possession of these earthly goods becomes the goal or path of a person’s entire life, then the mind acquires another truth - a false one. Truth says: “Live and rejoice! This is paradise!” And man, no longer like a man, but like a beast, will follow his thoughts and forget his beginning, his real path. Earth and Cosmos (spirit and body) must be combined, but with the predominance of Cosmos, in order to simply satisfy physical needs so that they do not overshadow thoughts. Man was given reason. For what? Cattle think primitively, if they think at all, in general, they think instinctively in order to survive. She eats, procreates, sleeps, keeps her body hygienic, and sometimes allows herself to play and have fun. Tell me, how does she differ from a person who has completely abandoned reason in favor of “live and be happy”? Nothing. Reason was given to us so that we could think, and since we think slowly, uncertainly, skeptically, with apprehension, and sometimes on the contrary, it has led to the fact that in order to improve ourselves, we must be patient. And it so happened that the process is long and inexhaustible for our human life. But this is undoubtedly the best choice, because if you become a sage, you will love life as an animal does not love it, you will see what an animal will not see, you will know more and you will be smarter, but not from vanity, but from needs.

An animal can have fun, but cannot read and understand a book (why do people who can read think that reading and understanding are the same thing?), it does not even think about anything lofty, and, for example, it does not love sees nothing but carnal pleasure. A wise man can do both. Choose the path, my friends, and make no mistake! You will pay for your choice

There are many different qualities in the soul of every person: kindness, openness, constraint or, conversely, relaxedness, honesty, understanding and respect for other people, readiness to come to their aid, but these qualities are distributed in us differently, for some it prevails one thing, someone lacks the other. The most important qualities in a person for me are honesty and willingness to help other people. You ask me, but why did I put honesty in first place? I can give the answer by giving a specific and truthful example from personal experience.
In third grade, I didn't like math at all. I didn’t like to subtract, multiply, or divide, although I got a good B in this subject. Then we were assigned to read any story for extracurricular reading. We had Lev Davydychev’s book “The Life of Ivan Semyonov” at home. This is the book I decided to read. It tells about a second-grader and repeater Ivan Semyonov, who did not like to study and did everything to avoid going to school. He didn’t receive grades higher than a C, didn’t do his homework, and often skipped classes. Lev Davydychev's book interested me so much that mathematics became my least favorite subject, and I decided to follow the example of the hero of the book, that is, skip classes. As I remember now, it was the end of February. The weather outside was quite cold, and our lessons lasted about four and a half hours. Naturally, I simply couldn’t stand that amount of time outside in the cold, and so I came home as if after the third lesson, telling my sister and parents that there were no more lessons. This went on for probably five days. In the end, my parents found out that I didn’t go to school, and because of this they forced me to do all the math assignments that I missed, study all the lessons, and also, as punishment, I did not go to the circus with them. Now, having become smarter, I adhere to the following rule: “Everything secret becomes clear,” and from this it follows that there is simply no point in lying, since the deception will sooner or later be revealed.
Another important quality in a person is the willingness to help other people. But let's imagine that for all people in the world this quality has disappeared. What will happen then? An old woman who slipped on the street will not be able to get up, a girl who has lost her keys on the road will never find them. No person can do without the help of his neighbor. Even I, just recently, leaving the store, did not notice the descending steps, slipped and fell unsuccessfully, breaking off my palm and wrist. But, fortunately for me, a kind man was nearby, who handed me my bag, which had flown not far to the side, and helped me get up.
Thus, I consider the most important thing in a person to be honesty and help to your neighbors, people you don’t know. After all, in my opinion, a person cannot do without these qualities in society.