Mothers who took their husbands away from their daughters. True story: how my mother stole my husband from me

Each person has his own truth. Our heroine’s mother probably convinces herself that she did everything for the benefit of her granddaughter.

My mother and I had an ordinary relationship: she took care of me, I obeyed her. We communicated without conflicts, but also without much trust. She periodically reproached me for not having arranged personal life. I don’t blame her for this, it seems to me that many single parents say this.

At the age of 18, I fell in love with a man 10 years older than me, and after six months of dating I introduced him to my mother. After looking him over from head to toe, she later told me that this was “not a bad choice.” Indeed, Anton was a charming, cheerful, educated person who knew how to impress others.

Although he earned enough to rent an apartment, after the wedding it was decided to live in ours. three-room apartment. I studied at a university, did not earn money. And here there was savings and convenience: my mother was lenient when we forgot to wash the dishes or threw things around. She found it pretty quickly mutual language with Anton: the age difference between her and my husband was almost the same as between him and me. They talked about the idols of my mother’s youth, laughed at them with understandable jokes, and raised me together. The picture is like something out of a good comedy.

Perhaps I should have been wary even then, but it still seems to me that at the very beginning it was an innocent communication. Anton treated me with care and admired me. Soon I became pregnant. Nine months were difficult, with constant bouts of toxicosis. My husband began to go to sleep in the living room or kitchen so as not to disturb me. Apparently, that’s when everything started between him and my mother. I shudder to think that they were together when I was suffering.

But I analyze this after the fact. During pregnancy, I did not have the slightest suspicion that two close people were betraying me. Problems arose after the baby was born. I started having postpartum depression. I did not approach my daughter, even if she was crying. She refused to breastfeed her. She could leave home for a long time and return late in the evening.

It was an illness, not the behavior that has always been characteristic of me

Family members took advantage of my difficult condition. The husband filed a petition for deprivation parental rights. He had enough evidence: doctors’ reports, my mother’s testimony, reviews from neighbors about how they saw me staggering on the street at night.

I was in a state of apathy. I couldn’t fight for my daughter, but looked at what was happening from the outside and even thought that my husband and mother were doing the right thing: what if I was actually dangerous for the child. I often cried, felt guilty, and once swallowed sedative pills. I lost my daughter.

And not only her. My husband divorced me. I was depressed and couldn't sort things out. Too much had happened in a short period of time, so I couldn’t think of anything smarter to do to leave home. Go to a monastery. It seemed to me that I had chosen the only right option. I needed to recover, otherwise I felt that I could make a second suicide attempt - and it would be successful.

I will omit my life in the monastery: prayers, fasting, lack of stress, friendly atmosphere. I slowly came to my senses. After a year and a half, I decided to return home. When I inserted the key into door lock, then he did not give in. You never know what made my mother do this. I sat down on a bench to wait for her. I was going to discuss how to get my child and husband back. The depression has passed, I am healthy and I want to have a normal family.

Soon I saw my mother with a stroller and her ex-husband next to her

They walked and held hands. I was even happy. This means that the grandmother continues to see her granddaughter, the husband has not stopped communicating. But then they saw me and stopped dead in their tracks. The silent scene lasted about thirty seconds. Then they both shouted at me, why I had come and what I needed, and began accusing me of irresponsible behavior.

My husband dragged me into the house, my mother put my suitcases out of the balcony, they both started pushing money at me and demanding that I leave immediately. They did not let me near my daughter, claiming that the child was already accustomed to another mother. Which one else? Have you already managed to get yourself a new woman, you bastard? Who is this bitch? And then my mother appears and announces that she is raising my child, and she and Anton submitted an application to the registry office.

It was as if the walls and ceiling had fallen on me. In order not to do anything and not to scare my baby, I packed my things and left for nowhere. First I stayed with an old friend. Then my class teacher found out about the trouble and took me in with her. I got a job and tried to somehow cope with my pain. During this time, I was allowed to see my daughter only a few times. I was introduced to her as an older sister.

At the age of 28, I finally got married for the second time and gave birth. And a few years later, I couldn’t resist and, at the next meeting with my daughter, I told her who she really was to me and offered to move in with me. She happily agreed. At that time, she was already 14 years old, so neither the court nor the guardianship authorities could force her to return. My children and my current husband communicate well with each other.

Shortly after my beautiful lady came to live with me, my ex and my mother's marriage broke up. I'm happy about it. Neither my daughter nor I communicate with them at all. And if my mother gets sick or is dying, I will not go to her. I will never forgive her for what I had to endure.

Country love story. Act one. Abandoned. Natalya Roslova is 21 years old. Now the young woman is undergoing treatment in the trauma department of Solovyovka. During the City Day celebration in Yaroslavl, she broke her leg. A few months ago, Natasha lost her family, and while already in a hospital bed, she learned that she had also lost her children. The reason was the late love of her mother, forty-eight-year-old Svetlana Skok. After the death of her husband, she quickly found her happiness with twenty-two-year-old Evgeniy Nabatov, whom, in general, there was no need to look for, since he is Natalya’s husband and the father of her two children. Natalya Roslova: “They told me straight out that we will live together and that we don’t need you at all. My mother said that they had been sleeping almost since the day we met, and my husband said, “We love each other, so get out of here.” The young husband and mother kicked Natalya out of the house, and now they live together in the village of Utkino not far from Railway station . Natasha's daughter, one-and-a-half-year-old Katya, Svetlana Skok took her daughter away from her soon after her former mother-in-law began living with her closest relative. Natalya Roslova temporarily sent four-month-old Vanya to the children's ward of the Danilovsky District Hospital when she realized that she could not support the child alone. Recently Svetlana Skok took him too. In the village of Tufanovo, Natalya Roslova’s entire family lived in a three-room collective farm apartment before her father’s death, and it was here that she returned after her husband and mother kicked her out of the house. As Natasha’s neighbors told us, Svetlana Skok and Evgeny Nabatov often came here and together beat the young woman. When she ended up in the hospital, her mother came to Tufanovo again and locked the apartment. Now Natasha has nowhere to return. Act two. Charity. Natasha made friends in the hospital. They not only helped the woman with money, but also protected her from her mother when she and her new husband came to visit her daughter. Tatyana Lipatova: “They came here three times, each time drunk, and my mother behaved so much that we were even forced to point out to her that she was actually in the hospital. Mom constantly boasted that she bought this and that, and that’s where she walked.” Natalya also has a real sponsor. On the next bed in the Solovyov hospital lay the mother of Muscovite Marina Sofronova. When the woman found out the story of Natalya Roslova, she bought all the necessary medicines for her, and now she is going to help her find a job. Marina Sofronova: “When my mother was discharged, she told us everything, and my friend Ira and I just stood up and realized that we would now get up and go to Natasha and help her.” Act three. Femme fatale. The film crew of the City TV Channel went to the village of Utkino to meet Evgeny Nabatov and Svetlana Skok. From the very first minutes of the conversation, Svetlana Vladimirovna began, as they say, to work for the camera. It didn’t take long for her to declare her daughter a prostitute. And according to her, allegedly because of this she took her children away from her. What Svetlana Vladimirovna said cannot withstand not only paper, but also videotape. Svetlana Skok: “I have children, I didn’t go to the city day, damn it, to arrange my ass, it was she who went and abandoned the children. That whore, b...d, p.... got it - it’s not enough, I’ll break her other leg. Let him say thank you that he is walking alive.” Svetlana Skok found her explanation for our visit to Utkino: “Zhen, you understand, she wants you back, she wants her family back, you understand me.” Evgeny Nabatov answered our questions reluctantly: “How will we live? As we lived, raising children. That's all". Epilogue. The village love story will most likely be investigated by law enforcement agencies. The other day, Natalya Roslova wrote a statement to the police, she asks that her mother be held criminally liable for the grievous bodily harm inflicted on her. The young woman has nowhere to live, nowhere to go. She should have been discharged from Solovyovka last week, but after learning from us about the circumstances of the young woman’s life, the head physician, Alexander Degtyarev, decided to let her stay in bed for a while longer. And maybe something will work out there. Meanwhile, the reality is that Natalya will not be able to work for at least another four months. It is unknown whether her children will be returned. According to Svetlana Skok, she took custody of herself.

My mother and I had an ordinary relationship: she took care of me, I obeyed her. We communicated without conflicts, but also without much trust. She periodically reproached me for not having a happy personal life because of me. I don’t blame her for this, it seems to me that many single parents say this.

Although he earned enough to rent an apartment, after the wedding it was decided to move into our three-room apartment. I studied at a university, did not earn money. But here there was savings and convenience: my mother was lenient when we forgot to wash the dishes or threw things around. She quickly found a common language with Anton: the age difference between her and my husband was almost the same as between him and me. They talked about the idols of my mother’s youth, laughed at them with understandable jokes, and raised me together. The picture is like something out of a good comedy.

But I analyze this after the fact. During pregnancy, I did not have the slightest suspicion that two close people were betraying me. Problems arose after the baby was born. I began to experience postpartum depression. I did not approach my daughter, even if she was crying. She refused to breastfeed her. She could leave home for a long time and return late in the evening.

Family members took advantage of my difficult condition. The husband applied to the court for deprivation of parental rights. He had enough evidence: doctors’ reports, my mother’s testimony, reviews from neighbors about how they saw me staggering on the street at night.

I will omit my life in the monastery: prayers, fasting, lack of stress, friendly atmosphere. I slowly came to my senses. After a year and a half, I decided to return home. When I inserted the key into the door lock, it did not budge. You never know what made my mother do this. I sat down on a bench to wait for her. I was going to discuss how to get my child and husband back. The depression has passed, I am healthy and I want to have a normal family.

Letters from afar

More than a year ago, a surrogate mother took away my sister’s husband.
Everything happened somehow not humanly. It was a real tragedy for everyone.
For some reason, the sister could not bear the child herself. She had several miscarriages early stages pregnancy. And then she and her husband decided to turn to a surrogate mother for help.
They were looking for a candidate for this role for about a year, but they could not find one. There was something that didn’t suit them about the women who offered their services.
But, as you know, important points happen unexpectedly.

One day my sister was relaxing in a sanatorium. There she met and became friends with a young woman. She was with a child, a girl about 5 years old. Her parents sent her to a sanatorium while her husband was doing renovations in the apartment. There she told her sister, in great confidence, that she had recently become a surrogate mother and did it for the money. In their small town there is almost no work, so some young women agree to this service.
Her sister Lyudmila also wants to become a surrogate mother. She is a strong, young girl, she herself gave birth not so long ago. Lives with a man, marriage is not formalized in order to receive benefits as a single mother.

Conversations continued, and this topic was returned to several times. And then the sister admitted that she was also looking for a surrogate mother. Then it's a matter of technology. Acquaintance, contract, conditions, etc. My sister liked an energetic young woman under 30, with a sense of humor, education, and a strong four-year-old toddler. Moreover, she was already aware, thanks to her sister, what it was.

The sister talked to her husband. Then the legal issues were drawn up and after some time the woman and child were settled in their second apartment. The sister is a very wealthy woman and the future mother of their child did not know any refusal. My sister even hired a nanny to take care of her children.

Everything went fine. She and her husband often visited the woman and invited her to their house.
Born at the right time healthy girl. Gorgeous!
Lyudmila received the payment and left for her home.

The parents found happiness.
The child grew and developed as children should. Godmother The baby was the same friend from the sanatorium, whose sister carried the baby.

One day my sister said that she had been given a terrible diagnosis. Everything was bad. There is very little chance of survival. She told this news to her friend. She came to the rescue. But she couldn’t help for a long time, since she herself had a family and was expecting her second child. Then she suggested inviting her sister. She recently broke up with her man, works in a store, can leave this penny position and come to the rescue. There is nothing holding her there, and she carried this child.
That's what we decided.

For our part, we also helped my sister, but neither I nor my mother could leave work and take care of the baby.

Lyudmila and her son arrived a week after the conversation and settled in my sister’s house.
The baby quickly found a common language with the woman. They got along very well. Lyudmila’s son went to school, she masterfully managed the household, and even managed to go with the child to the hospital to see her mother.

My sister was slowly recovering. Long-term rehabilitation was expected. In short, everything was very bad and the doctors gave practically no hope.
The fight lasted for more than a year. It was sometimes better, sometimes very bad.
Then rehabilitation. My sister lived in Turkey for almost a year. She needed this vitally.
All this time Lyudmila was taking care of the baby. The child went to 1st grade.

The sister returned home. Everyone was happy.
Lyudmila and her son left for their town. We were all very grateful to her for her help.

Last year, before the New Year, my sister called and said that her husband had left her. And he went to Lyudmila.
I bought an apartment and now live with her.
My sister’s condition was beyond words. We were all afraid that, amid this tragedy, the disease would return again. But everything worked out.
The former son-in-law and his new wife had a daughter.
Lyudmila does not blame herself for anything. She says it's fate.

This is how they are, men. As soon as the wife gets sick, they immediately look for a replacement.
It’s not for nothing that people say that a man needs a rich sister and a healthy wife.

In St. Petersburg, a 73-year-old pensioner stole her husband from her own daughter, and now the couple is expecting a child. The couple will be given birth to a baby by a surrogate mother - the granddaughter of the famous actor Oleg Strizhenov, Alexandra. Ex-wife The flighty man is sure that he tied the knot with her mother solely for the sake of the apartment, but the happy spouses declare: they have love.

Officer from the colony

In 2000 Elena Podgornaya I read an unusual letter in the newspaper, which was sent to the editor by a prisoner of the colony in Severomorsk. In his message, a man named Vyacheslav told the story of his difficult life. He wrote that a few years ago he was happily married and served as an officer in the navy. Purely out of noble motives, according to Vyacheslav himself, he had to kill the man because of whom the sailors did not receive their salaries. So the man ended up behind bars. While serving his sentence, Vyacheslav learned that his wife did not wait for him. The former “officer” did not lose hope that a kind and sincere woman would respond to his letter.

And Elena responded. She also had an unsuccessful marriage behind her, and besides, the letter from a prisoner from Severomorsk deeply touched her. A correspondence began. Seven years later, Elena and Vyacheslav got married: the wedding took place in the colony. Three years later, the man was released to his loving wife.

Divorce and new marriage

To my mother-in-law, Galina Evgenievna, Vyacheslav didn’t like him at first. The pensioner did not like the fact that her son-in-law, a man in the prime of his life, did not work, did not bring money to the family and was sitting on her daughter’s neck. “Mom kept telling me that I needed to get a divorce,” Elena recalls. “But I kept hoping for something.”

At that time the family lived in Sortavala. Galina Evgenievna took care of her paralyzed husband. After his death, his relatives moved to St. Petersburg. Elena hoped that with the move to Big city will begin new life, but no miracle happened. Vyacheslav still did not want to work, drank, and began to cheat. In addition, Elena learned that her husband had never been an officer. “He was a simple trumpet player in the navy,” Podgornaya is convinced. - And he ended up in prison for much more serious reasons! This man knows how to pull the wool over his ears very well.”

The woman filed for divorce. She expected that Vyacheslav would disappear from her life forever, but that was not the case. Elena's mother, who supported her until the very end, suddenly found herself on the side of her former son-in-law. The pensioner took pity on Vyacheslav, who had nowhere to live after separating from his wife, and offered to stay in her apartment for a while. And a little later, 73-year-old Galina Evgenievna and 50-year-old Vyacheslav got married. At the same time, the former prisoner took the surname of his new wife, and now they are both Zhukovsky.

Child from son-in-law

Elena is sure that her ex-husband married her mother solely for the apartment, but the couple declare that they are truly happy. The couple decided to have a child together using the services of a surrogate mother. It turned out that Galina Zhukovskaya froze her eggs back in the 1990s - just in case. And now, the right opportunity has arrived!

The couple began to look for a surrogate mother. Thanks to the practice of "five handshakes" they reached Alexander Strizhenov- granddaughter of the famous theater and film actor Oleg Strizhenov. True, the girl does not communicate with her famous relatives. "She is from creative family, and we are sure that something will be passed on to our child,” Galina Evgenievna explains the choice.

Alexandra agreed to give birth for unusual couple. According to her, surrogacy is not a profession, but a way to earn good money. Alexandra needs funds: by the age of 31, she already has four children. Moreover, not so long ago Strizhenova already tried to earn money in this way, but during her pregnancy her biological parents disappeared, and Alexandra did not receive any money. Two babies had to be sent to Orphanage. The mother of many children hopes that the Zhukovskys will not give up their desire to become parents.

The embryo transfer was successful, and the baby should be born in the spring. Thus, Elena Podgornaya will have a brother or sister. “We will raise our baby with dignity,” says Vyacheslav. - We don’t know whether it’s a boy or a girl, but it will be a true patriot your country!"